You Don't have a Reaction Problem
You’re Stuck in a Pattern You Don’t Fully Understand..Yet
You don’t wake up planning to overreact.
- or overthinking
- or push too hard
- or keep the peace at your own expense
And yet — it keeps happening.
Different situation.
Different person.
Same emotional outcome.
If you’ve ever asked yourself,
“Why do I keep doing this — even when I know better?”
You’re not broken.
The Real Problem Isn’t Your Behavior
The real problem isn’t your anger.
Or your anxiety.
Or your overthinking.
Or your people-pleasing.
The real problem is an unmet emotional need.
At some point in your life, you needed to feel:
- Safe.
- Chosen.
- Steady.
- Valued.
- Supported.
- Secure.
And for whatever reason, that need wasn’t met consistently.
So your nervous system adapted.
It created a survival response.
That response worked back then.
But now, it runs automatically.
Why It Feels Like You’re Repeating Yourself
You react.
You regret it.
You promise it won’t happen again.
And then it does.
We call this a loop because the pattern keeps repeating.
Every time something activates that old unmet need,
your nervous system runs the same pattern.
your nervous system has already committed to the reaction.
Why Most Approaches Don’t Fully Work
Many programs focus on:
Your thoughts.
Your behaviors.
Your childhood experiences.
And those things matter.
But here’s the problem:
By the time your thoughts activate in the cycle,
your emotional brain has taken over and the logical brain is shutting down.
That’s why you “know better”
but still react the same way.
Some approaches teach you how to regulate your nervous system.
But if you stop there, the deeper pattern remains.
Because underneath every reaction is a specific unmet need.
And unless that need is addressed,
the loop continues.
What Makes Our Loop System Different
We’ve broken nervous stress responses down into 7 predictable loops.
Each loop:
Forms around a specific unmet emotional need
Follows a clear and repeatable cycle
Drives your thoughts, behaviors, and emotional reactions
When you understand your specific loop,
everything starts to make sense.
Not just what you do —
but why you do it.
And when you see the pattern clearly,
you can interrupt it.
Learn about the the Seven Different Emotional Loops
Our Track.Retrain.Rewire program is a structured, step-by-step process designed to help you break your loop for good.
It happens in two phases.
Phase One: Regulation & Awareness
Before you can rewire a pattern,
you need enough nervous system regulation to stay present.
In Phase One, you learn:
How to calm your nervous system
How to recognize when you’re being activated
How to create more space between trigger and reaction
You become more mindful.
More steady.
Less reactive.
By the end of this phase, you will:
Identify your specific unmet emotional need
Map exactly where the loop first activates
Shift your overall nervous system baseline from reactive or shutdown to calm and stable.
Feel more in control of your emotions and reactions
This foundation is necessary for real rewiring to happen.
Phase Two: Breaking the Cycle
This is where transformation happens.
In Phase Two, we teach you:
How to interrupt your loop in real time
How to meet your unmet emotional need in a healthy way
How to retrain your nervous system to see safety where it once saw threat
How to build a new pattern that feels natural, not forced.
You practice disrupting the cycle — again and again —
until your nervous system no longer defaults to the old pattern.
The loop weakens.
The reaction softens.
Eventually, it disappears.
Not because you forced it away —
but because your system no longer needs it.
Imagine feeling steady in situations that used to trigger you.
That’s what happens when the loop breaks.
This isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about becoming free from a pattern that no longer serves you.